"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Stop Rating Women!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Last Man Standing
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Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!~attrACTION~ said:
Nightwing
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The problem that guys typically have is they let their perception of the chick CONTROL how they act around her. They get dopey, sappy, and let her get by with bullshyt that they would not normally let anyone else bet by with. Or it could be the to the other extreme where they may treat her like a complete outcast when she might be an otherwise nice person.
Or it can make the guy feel insecure about himself.
So as far as I'm concerned, there's no problem in rating chicks.
ConantheLibertarian
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
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Yea, id be more of an ******* to a 10, whos proably insecure as the 7.Lust said:
Crank_It_Up
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no LMS, not raping women, he was talking about rating women, notice there is no P in rating.Last Man Standing said:
as for rating a woman's appearance, I'm all for it. In the grand scheme of things to pretend a girl's looks don't mean anything is ludicrous. Granted there are many other things to consider besides looks, but appearance still counts. As to what degree, that depends on your own opinion on what you look for in a girl.
Serialized3
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Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Agreed, people generally are doing that anyway whether it's on a scale of 1-10 or some other selection criteria.Serialized3 said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tha Realnezz
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