yuckDocs said:I don't have to tell you what's attractive about this woman.
http://pix.hotornot.com/pics/H8/HR/HU/KE/A8EYR8FXGVU.jpg
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yuckDocs said:I don't have to tell you what's attractive about this woman.
http://pix.hotornot.com/pics/H8/HR/HU/KE/A8EYR8FXGVU.jpg
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!~attrACTION~ said:Stop Rating Women!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea, id be more of an ******* to a 10, whos proably insecure as the 7.Lust said:It does matter.
If a 10, i mean a model was speaking to you. You'd speak to her differently than a 7.
no LMS, not raping women, he was talking about rating women, notice there is no P in rating.Last Man Standing said:Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!
Agreed, people generally are doing that anyway whether it's on a scale of 1-10 or some other selection criteria.Serialized3 said:This is some noob advice right here. Ratings are fine.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Everyone is on the internet.Tha Realnezz said:Whatever,i only hear people on the internet