"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop Rating Women!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i am me

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man yall are uptight, quit taking this **** so seroiusly...rating women is just somethin you do when ur around the boys and are jus having fun. YES hot women are different from ugly women and YES i treat them differently. im attracted to hot women and i flirt with them. jus dont act like a ***** and submit to ANYONE and youll be fine
 
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Stop Rating Women!
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Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!
 
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I'll say it like this, there's nothing wrong with rating them, after all your rating her is just your PERCEPTION of her, particularly from a physical standpoint.

The problem that guys typically have is they let their perception of the chick CONTROL how they act around her. They get dopey, sappy, and let her get by with bullshyt that they would not normally let anyone else bet by with. Or it could be the to the other extreme where they may treat her like a complete outcast when she might be an otherwise nice person.

Or it can make the guy feel insecure about himself.

So as far as I'm concerned, there's no problem in rating chicks.
 
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Yeah I'm not down with this ratings stuff either, binary works for me, kindly hand her a paper sack=0, hit it=1. Then it's a just matter of do you find her attractive or not? This 0-10 stuff is for the birds. Does it really matter if she's a 6 or 7? Either way within 5 seconds you're already wondering if she takes it backdoor.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lust said:
It does matter.


If a 10, i mean a model was speaking to you. You'd speak to her differently than a 7.
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Yea, id be more of an ******* to a 10, whos proably insecure as the 7.
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!
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no LMS, not raping women, he was talking about rating women, notice there is no P in rating.

as for rating a woman's appearance, I'm all for it. In the grand scheme of things to pretend a girl's looks don't mean anything is ludicrous. Granted there are many other things to consider besides looks, but appearance still counts. As to what degree, that depends on your own opinion on what you look for in a girl.
 
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Serialized3 said:
This is some noob advice right here. Ratings are fine.
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Agreed, people generally are doing that anyway whether it's on a scale of 1-10 or some other selection criteria.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whatever,i only hear people on the internet and real life geeks rating women like that..but I don't mind..whatever..
 
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