"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stop Rating Women!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Last Man Standing
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Why are you assuming that we are rapists?????? Because we "hate" women? I'm sure there are some desperate bastards in here but this doesn't necessitate a thread to be made!!!!!!!!~attrACTION~ said:
Nightwing
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The problem that guys typically have is they let their perception of the chick CONTROL how they act around her. They get dopey, sappy, and let her get by with bullshyt that they would not normally let anyone else bet by with. Or it could be the to the other extreme where they may treat her like a complete outcast when she might be an otherwise nice person.
Or it can make the guy feel insecure about himself.
So as far as I'm concerned, there's no problem in rating chicks.
ConantheLibertarian
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
oakraiderz2
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Yea, id be more of an ******* to a 10, whos proably insecure as the 7.Lust said:
Crank_It_Up
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no LMS, not raping women, he was talking about rating women, notice there is no P in rating.Last Man Standing said:
as for rating a woman's appearance, I'm all for it. In the grand scheme of things to pretend a girl's looks don't mean anything is ludicrous. Granted there are many other things to consider besides looks, but appearance still counts. As to what degree, that depends on your own opinion on what you look for in a girl.
Serialized3
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Nightwing
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Agreed, people generally are doing that anyway whether it's on a scale of 1-10 or some other selection criteria.Serialized3 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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