I have a girlfriend of 3 years and I dont wanna **** it up theres too much comitment. Theres a girl i shouldnt like but i do and i didnt wanna kiss her but i did, now i said lets be friends n she said ok , theres a good chance my girlfriend might find out so i dont want to go out with her and her friends 2mrw but something is driving me to do it please help me control this emotion!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Stop my compultions!!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
Tell tell the one you don't like "When I kissed you, I thought you were my girl friend. I was half drunk." Story ends.
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Okay, take "comitment" out of the relationship you have with your gf. Look at your relationship. Are you actually happy in it? If you're not, why? Is she slacking off in certain parts of the relationship?
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
What he said.