I have a girlfriend of 3 years and I dont wanna **** it up theres too much comitment. Theres a girl i shouldnt like but i do and i didnt wanna kiss her but i did, now i said lets be friends n she said ok , theres a good chance my girlfriend might find out so i dont want to go out with her and her friends 2mrw but something is driving me to do it please help me control this emotion!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Stop my compultions!!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
Tell tell the one you don't like "When I kissed you, I thought you were my girl friend. I was half drunk." Story ends.
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Okay, take "comitment" out of the relationship you have with your gf. Look at your relationship. Are you actually happy in it? If you're not, why? Is she slacking off in certain parts of the relationship?
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
What he said.