I have a girlfriend of 3 years and I dont wanna **** it up theres too much comitment. Theres a girl i shouldnt like but i do and i didnt wanna kiss her but i did, now i said lets be friends n she said ok , theres a good chance my girlfriend might find out so i dont want to go out with her and her friends 2mrw but something is driving me to do it please help me control this emotion!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Stop my compultions!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
Tell tell the one you don't like "When I kissed you, I thought you were my girl friend. I was half drunk." Story ends.
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Okay, take "comitment" out of the relationship you have with your gf. Look at your relationship. Are you actually happy in it? If you're not, why? Is she slacking off in certain parts of the relationship?
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
What he said.