I have a girlfriend of 3 years and I dont wanna **** it up theres too much comitment. Theres a girl i shouldnt like but i do and i didnt wanna kiss her but i did, now i said lets be friends n she said ok , theres a good chance my girlfriend might find out so i dont want to go out with her and her friends 2mrw but something is driving me to do it please help me control this emotion!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Stop my compultions!!!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ladiesssman
Don Juan
Tell tell the one you don't like "When I kissed you, I thought you were my girl friend. I was half drunk." Story ends.
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Okay, take "comitment" out of the relationship you have with your gf. Look at your relationship. Are you actually happy in it? If you're not, why? Is she slacking off in certain parts of the relationship?
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
Take a damn good look at it. If you see that you're truly not happy with your gf, you will continue to be miserable with her. That's when you know it's time to move on.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MRomeo99
Don Juan
What he said.