I think the problem is that you care too much what they think. Why does it matter to you if they feel validated or not? Why do you care? If they have genuine interest, then it's a good thing that they caught you looking at them and if not, it doesn't matter either way.I find 80 % of the hot young chicks give off princess vibe. No interest in feeding the monster so I look at them as I would blocks of cheese. Also a lot of them play that Chad bait game where they dress provocatively and then give u the death stare if u look. Occasionally one passes where she s so hot I can't help looking. That's one in a 1000. Maybe it's me. Or maybe I just don't have a thing for hair extensions, tatts, fish lips and Botox pillow face.