"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice would be nice.

Few nights ago, met a girl on myspace. I'm 19, she's 19. We started messaging back and forth for a day, and then on Saturday she gave me her number and said to text her.

We spent all day Sat texting and when Sunday rolled around, she gave me a call. We talked for several hours that night and when I got off the phone she quickly text me and said she enjoyed talking to me. She asked me for a pic (which was weird since she had my myspace) and she sent me a couple of her.

Monday night she called again and we talked until about 2AM. Today in class she text me to see what I was doing at 2:30. I told her work so she asked if I wanted to meet later tonight and I said yes.

When I got off she gave me a call and we agreed to meet up someplace. I pull in and she's right behind me, so we talk for a bit and agree to head towards Starbucks. Couple miles down the highway she takes an exit. I called her and it went straight to voicemail, and I text her and no reply.

What's up with this? All the interest and then nothing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Linuss said:
Advice would be nice.

Few nights ago, met a girl on myspace. I'm 19, she's 19. We started messaging back and forth for a day, and then on Saturday she gave me her number and said to text her.

We spent all day Sat texting and when Sunday rolled around, she gave me a call. We talked for several hours that night and when I got off the phone she quickly text me and said she enjoyed talking to me. She asked me for a pic (which was weird since she had my myspace) and she sent me a couple of her.

Monday night she called again and we talked until about 2AM. Today in class she text me to see what I was doing at 2:30. I told her work so she asked if I wanted to meet later tonight and I said yes.

When I got off she gave me a call and we agreed to meet up someplace. I pull in and she's right behind me, so we talk for a bit and agree to head towards Starbucks. Couple miles down the highway she takes an exit. I called her and it went straight to voicemail, and I text her and no reply.

What's up with this? All the interest and then nothing?
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Dude that ain't being stood up, that's downright scary. I hope she doesn't work for a criminal organization.
 
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second thoughts? hmmm perhaps she got scared and chickened out or maybe she wasnt interested in what she saw... who knows.
 
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^^^^Like she said^^^^
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon said:
Why do women do stuff like this??? It wastes so much time.

No wonder people cant have relationships anymore they are too damn busy trying to play each other.
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if she drove up and went into a convenient store where you were to meet her and you drive up and notice her, from her picture, and then notice she had a hunchback and a badonkadonk butt... would you drive off? its cruel .. but it's honest..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten said:
if she drove up and went into a convenient store where you were to meet her and you drive up and notice her, from her picture, and then notice she had a hunchback and a badonkadonk butt... would you drive off? its cruel .. but it's honest..
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Oh yeh thats true.... Soo. the OP is ugly as hell and she bailed???
 
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