"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice would be nice.

Few nights ago, met a girl on myspace. I'm 19, she's 19. We started messaging back and forth for a day, and then on Saturday she gave me her number and said to text her.

We spent all day Sat texting and when Sunday rolled around, she gave me a call. We talked for several hours that night and when I got off the phone she quickly text me and said she enjoyed talking to me. She asked me for a pic (which was weird since she had my myspace) and she sent me a couple of her.

Monday night she called again and we talked until about 2AM. Today in class she text me to see what I was doing at 2:30. I told her work so she asked if I wanted to meet later tonight and I said yes.

When I got off she gave me a call and we agreed to meet up someplace. I pull in and she's right behind me, so we talk for a bit and agree to head towards Starbucks. Couple miles down the highway she takes an exit. I called her and it went straight to voicemail, and I text her and no reply.

What's up with this? All the interest and then nothing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Linuss said:
Advice would be nice.

Few nights ago, met a girl on myspace. I'm 19, she's 19. We started messaging back and forth for a day, and then on Saturday she gave me her number and said to text her.

We spent all day Sat texting and when Sunday rolled around, she gave me a call. We talked for several hours that night and when I got off the phone she quickly text me and said she enjoyed talking to me. She asked me for a pic (which was weird since she had my myspace) and she sent me a couple of her.

Monday night she called again and we talked until about 2AM. Today in class she text me to see what I was doing at 2:30. I told her work so she asked if I wanted to meet later tonight and I said yes.

When I got off she gave me a call and we agreed to meet up someplace. I pull in and she's right behind me, so we talk for a bit and agree to head towards Starbucks. Couple miles down the highway she takes an exit. I called her and it went straight to voicemail, and I text her and no reply.

What's up with this? All the interest and then nothing?
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Dude that ain't being stood up, that's downright scary. I hope she doesn't work for a criminal organization.
 
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second thoughts? hmmm perhaps she got scared and chickened out or maybe she wasnt interested in what she saw... who knows.
 
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^^^^Like she said^^^^
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonGorgon said:
Why do women do stuff like this??? It wastes so much time.

No wonder people cant have relationships anymore they are too damn busy trying to play each other.
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if she drove up and went into a convenient store where you were to meet her and you drive up and notice her, from her picture, and then notice she had a hunchback and a badonkadonk butt... would you drive off? its cruel .. but it's honest..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten said:
if she drove up and went into a convenient store where you were to meet her and you drive up and notice her, from her picture, and then notice she had a hunchback and a badonkadonk butt... would you drive off? its cruel .. but it's honest..
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Oh yeh thats true.... Soo. the OP is ugly as hell and she bailed???
 
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