Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stirred Up The Hornet's Nest Over At Gp.com with my "Tips"

es_mer8

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Damn you live ON campus right ?
Yep. I live in the dorms which works very well now that after putting some effort into fixing up my room.

I agree with you college girls they ALL seem to be boozehounds and my freinds didn't beleive till they saw it for their own eyes simple
A friend of mine last year when I was a senior told me how crazy it was and how just about every girl is an easy lay. Compared to how the girls at my HS were (snobby, uptight), it seemed like a future paradise. The first week of classes, a lot of girls in my classes seemed to have the same behaviors of the girls at my HS. Until the first weekend with parties. Holy sh1t, its something HS guys have to see to believe. I don't like drinking much but my roommate gets a bottle of Jagermeister and a 24 pack of Bud. The girls must smell the beer and flood into the room. My rap/r&b collection serves me well as R. Kelly with a couple beers in them will result in some crazy stuff.

sally sweetpants the next day then act likes it's nothing..Damn B1tches
LOL, I know. Isn't college great?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow, this thread has really got me thinking about stuff, while some things mentioned there are questionable, it really has got me thinking. I am going to try and stop acting so afc and be more of a real man. If others can do it, so can i.
 

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Also i agree that this site is way afc but at least there are still a few good things to read on this site. I might give posting stuff on this site a rest for a while.
 

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tHAT'S WHaT i'M tRYING tO DO gET Banned!! so it would be impossible to actually come back here and let thes afc's permeate my game.


But when you try to get banned here nothing going?

When you accidently might ryffle the feathers Of The cRackasa and The ForeIgners On yOUr Site With THe EBonics AND tHE tYping YOU get Banned .
 

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I don't know what DIESEL's reason was for going to such a site such as http://www.girlproblems.com (which, for some reason, seems to be down, because the site will not come up for me) for the sole purpose of making people mad. I'm guessing that he just wanted to express himself to these people, which is kind of understandable.

But DIESEL, it probably would have been much more effective if you told them calmly WHY their thinking is wrong, instead of just telling them that their thinking is wrong.

The probably would have thought, "Ohh! OK", instead of "Bah, he's some dumb 'DJ' hack who hates women. I'm going to ignore him".

Why waste your time posting that way if half the guys on that site aren't even going to listen to you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know what DIESEL's reason was for going to such a site such as http://www.girlproblems.com (which, for some reason, seems to be down, because the site will not come up for me) for the sole purpose of making people mad. I'm guessing that he just wanted to express himself to these people, which is kind of understandable.

But DIESEL, it probably would have been much more effective if you told them calmly WHY their thinking is wrong, instead of just telling them that their thinking is wrong.

The probably would have thought, "Ohh! OK", instead of "Bah, he's some dumb 'DJ' hack who hates women. I'm going to ignore him".

Why waste your time posting that way if half the guys on that site aren't even going to listen to you?

I know the guys on that site are mainly AFC's, but they actually might have ABSORBED your ideas, instead of just getting pissed off and ignoring them, and dismissing you as "some angry idiot from sosuave who doesn't know sh!t".

It's the same reason why Dr. Martin Luther King was more influtential than Malcolm X.
 

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12. REAL MEN EAT MEAT. GIRLS SECRETLY THINK THAT VEGETARIANS ARE PVSSIES. MANY OF MY ATTRACTIVE LADY FRIENDS (i.e. FBs) HAVE TOLD ME THIS IN CONFIDENCE. I JUST HAD TO THROW THAT IN THERE. SOMEHOW I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED TO FIND A LOT OF VEGETARIANS ON THIS SITE.


I liked your post but I don't agree with this!
I'm a vegetarian because of the fact that if I can survive without eating meat then why eat it?
This is my opinion and I don't try to change other peoples minds about this.
But I'm not going to begin to eat meat just because if I don't then women will think I'm a pvussy!

All people have different principles and if a women don't respect yours then just next her!
 

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I don't think much of this post. It seems to be more about "How to be a cold-hearted jerk" post than a "How to improve your success" post and reeks of cynicism and resentment.

I also fail to understand why so many guys consider getting laid such a huge achievement. Providing you look ok, then getting laid shouldn't be a problem for anyone, and whether you lay 1 girl or 1000 girls is merely a matter of your standards.

1. 95% OF WOMEN ARE UTTERLY WORTHLESS, (OTHER THAN FOR SEX OF COURSE) AND ULTIMATELY REPLACEABLE.
I couldn't disagree more. Perhaps you feel this way because 95% of women don't like you? It's all about your attitude. If you go through life with a cynical attitude and treat women (and any person) with so little respect, you can't expect to get any back. Women are not the enemy and of all the women I know, I'd consider less than 5% of them worthless. Actually, my female friends usually make better friends and much better company than guys.
 

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Yes the site is gone now it is something like datingissues.com or something like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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5. HAVE SOME BALLS AND BE A MAN. ACTION, ATTITUDE AND NOT OVERANALYSIS IS THE KEY TO GETTING LAID TO THAT EFFECT, IF YOU LOOK LIKE A WUSSY, YOU'LL BE TREATED LIKE A WUSSY. GET OFF YOUR FAT, LAZY ASS AND GET IN THE GYM. BEAT THE JOCKS AT THEIR OWN GAME. STOP LAMENTING THE UNFAIRNESS OF IT ALL. GET OVER THAT SHYT. LIFE ISN'T FAIR. YOU WANT TO START FUKKIN HOT BYTCHES? GET OFF YOUR ASS AND MAKE IT HAPPEN.
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PURE FVCKING GOLD! I needed to read it this morning!

ALL Newbies should read this over and over again.
 

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That was some on point sh*t.

Everything you said was true.

If more guys had that kind of attitude, the game wouldn't be as f*cked up as it is now.

Too many weak a$$ so-called men f*cking everything up for the rest of us.

That's why these chicks are so spoiled and f*cked up in the head.

Good post!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is the first time Ive ever read this post and I have to say that its a perfect example of everything that's wrong with sosuave.com

With an attitude like that, all you will ever attract are dirty, skanky women with no self-esteem. You will never keep a good, quality woman with an atitude like that.

Never.
 

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WTF? I just went to GP.com and it was some advert for enlarging my penis by 1-3 inches. :D

Anyway, this post is pretty crappy, and I have no idea why it is so popular. Being a misiogynist prick because you can't get any pu$$y might make you feel a little better, but guess what? You still won't get any pu$$y.

The above poster is right, you're not going to get anywhere with this attitude. I really, really hope you wrote this $hit as a joke to stir up a reaction, because it is not to be taken seriously.
 

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The sad part is that most of the guys on here are so inexperienced that they actually believe this is they way they have to act to pull women.

Its really sad. They will live very lonely lives.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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