I guess you could say I'm in a little bit of a pickle. These past few months I've really turned on my game and led on quite a few girls, and actually like a couple of those also, now recently I met this girl who I actually like a lot and would consider a relationship. My question is how do I handle all of these other girls that I've talked up so much?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sticky situation...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NorwegianDJ
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Continue talking to most of the girls while going for the girl you want the most 
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Personally I would just tell the truth, i would tell the other girls that ive found someone i really like and that im not sure if anything can happen. This will probably make them want you more but oh well its a quality problem to have.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Mr Wright is correct. Tell them the truth, it will make you more desireable to most. But it will stop you leading them on. And if your girlfriend/future girlfriend gets jelous you can say "well I told them that I'm with you and that nothing can happen, it's not my fault if they still like me cos I'm awsome".
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.