I guess you could say I'm in a little bit of a pickle. These past few months I've really turned on my game and led on quite a few girls, and actually like a couple of those also, now recently I met this girl who I actually like a lot and would consider a relationship. My question is how do I handle all of these other girls that I've talked up so much?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sticky situation...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NorwegianDJ
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Continue talking to most of the girls while going for the girl you want the most 
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Personally I would just tell the truth, i would tell the other girls that ive found someone i really like and that im not sure if anything can happen. This will probably make them want you more but oh well its a quality problem to have.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Mr Wright is correct. Tell them the truth, it will make you more desireable to most. But it will stop you leading them on. And if your girlfriend/future girlfriend gets jelous you can say "well I told them that I'm with you and that nothing can happen, it's not my fault if they still like me cos I'm awsome".
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.