I guess you could say I'm in a little bit of a pickle. These past few months I've really turned on my game and led on quite a few girls, and actually like a couple of those also, now recently I met this girl who I actually like a lot and would consider a relationship. My question is how do I handle all of these other girls that I've talked up so much?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sticky situation...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NorwegianDJ
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Continue talking to most of the girls while going for the girl you want the most 
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Personally I would just tell the truth, i would tell the other girls that ive found someone i really like and that im not sure if anything can happen. This will probably make them want you more but oh well its a quality problem to have.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Mr Wright is correct. Tell them the truth, it will make you more desireable to most. But it will stop you leading them on. And if your girlfriend/future girlfriend gets jelous you can say "well I told them that I'm with you and that nothing can happen, it's not my fault if they still like me cos I'm awsome".
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