Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sharing a common interest isn't sexual attraction. I'm sure there's lots of girls who like history, too, but that doesn't mean I think they're hot.
Yeah but they gotta like guys like you. Your type will be most comparable with a educated white collar chick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Idk I kind of like those Hooters girls. I wouldn't mind giving them a little money if they were hot and fvcked me all the time.
You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
 
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You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.

A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.

I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.

I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
 

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Inject comedy and abstract thought into the convo, I have a tendency to bring out the fun in people. I will find something funny/interesting to say in any situation, but I work in sales and have quick wit. It's something you most definitely can learn as I wasn't always this way. The wit was there, but the confidence to say what you want wasn't, again, it's a confidence thing. Don't be scared to say what you want and take a convo in the direction you want. Active listening with confidence are the skills you need, not just with women for for life.
 

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I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.

A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.

I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.

I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
 
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But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
 
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Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
If only I wasn't Florida's first ever convicted cyberstalker... Lol.

I definitely gotta change my last name in 2019.
 
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