"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sharing a common interest isn't sexual attraction. I'm sure there's lots of girls who like history, too, but that doesn't mean I think they're hot.
Yeah but they gotta like guys like you. Your type will be most comparable with a educated white collar chick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Idk I kind of like those Hooters girls. I wouldn't mind giving them a little money if they were hot and fvcked me all the time.
You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
 
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You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.

A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.

I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.

I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
 

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Inject comedy and abstract thought into the convo, I have a tendency to bring out the fun in people. I will find something funny/interesting to say in any situation, but I work in sales and have quick wit. It's something you most definitely can learn as I wasn't always this way. The wit was there, but the confidence to say what you want wasn't, again, it's a confidence thing. Don't be scared to say what you want and take a convo in the direction you want. Active listening with confidence are the skills you need, not just with women for for life.
 

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I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.

A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.

I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.

I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
 
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But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
 
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Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
If only I wasn't Florida's first ever convicted cyberstalker... Lol.

I definitely gotta change my last name in 2019.
 
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