David Billy
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I am also sure there's not only one girl in the world with an interest in real estate.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Sticking point: Boring Conversation
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Maybe a Lamborghini and a bionic d1ck would be good enough.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Sharing a common interest isn't sexual attraction. I'm sure there's lots of girls who like history, too, but that doesn't mean I think they're hot.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but they gotta like guys like you. Your type will be most comparable with a educated white collar chick.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Idk I kind of like those Hooters girls. I wouldn't mind giving them a little money if they were hot and fvcked me all the time.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.
A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.
I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.
I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Inject comedy and abstract thought into the convo, I have a tendency to bring out the fun in people. I will find something funny/interesting to say in any situation, but I work in sales and have quick wit. It's something you most definitely can learn as I wasn't always this way. The wit was there, but the confidence to say what you want wasn't, again, it's a confidence thing. Don't be scared to say what you want and take a convo in the direction you want. Active listening with confidence are the skills you need, not just with women for for life.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
If only I wasn't Florida's first ever convicted cyberstalker... Lol.
I definitely gotta change my last name in 2019.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I don't think hardly anyone will check. See if you can get it expunged. Otherwise name change.