David Billy
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I am also sure there's not only one girl in the world with an interest in real estate.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sticking point: Boring Conversation
- Thread starter RichardTheFrog
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Maybe a Lamborghini and a bionic d1ck would be good enough.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Sharing a common interest isn't sexual attraction. I'm sure there's lots of girls who like history, too, but that doesn't mean I think they're hot.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but they gotta like guys like you. Your type will be most comparable with a educated white collar chick.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Idk I kind of like those Hooters girls. I wouldn't mind giving them a little money if they were hot and fvcked me all the time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You'll be in the same position you are today. Alot of girls like that do have a "trick" or "sugar daddy" or multiple. Thing about it is they have a boyfriend too and your helping him out. The best sex gonna come from a lady who desire you without money. And by being in this cycle of paying your not having to be attractive. So your hurting yourself. So maybe have a mix of paid and non paid.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I guess I don't really see what is so "alpha" about their boyfriend who is so lazy he has to mooch off others. I know they don't all have these kind of guys.
A passive, beta type could not get rich or run a business in the first place.
I would get bored of them after fvcking them just a few times anyway. I've never paid the same girl for sex more than once.
I wasn't scared of the guys in prison, so I doubt I would be scared of their boyfriend, anyway. I don't get what his appeal is in the first place.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Inject comedy and abstract thought into the convo, I have a tendency to bring out the fun in people. I will find something funny/interesting to say in any situation, but I work in sales and have quick wit. It's something you most definitely can learn as I wasn't always this way. The wit was there, but the confidence to say what you want wasn't, again, it's a confidence thing. Don't be scared to say what you want and take a convo in the direction you want. Active listening with confidence are the skills you need, not just with women for for life.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
But you see what I'm saying. Most of them do those games, it's part of the territory. And no matter how lazy or low you/we might think the boyfriend is, he's the one she WANTS to fvck. Also in the end the girls are very similarly mentally to their man. I learned it's real important the type of mind you lay with cause it can affect your own mind. That's why I pointed you to sufficiently hot white collar educated babes.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Yea if only I knew where to meet them. I don't actually meet a whole lot of people.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Those types. Remember they stay in "high school" mentality. Those types are in the club from 18-30. Those are club/party girls. You might be able to get one on a trip or interesting outing.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
If only I wasn't Florida's first ever convicted cyberstalker... Lol.
I definitely gotta change my last name in 2019.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I don't think hardly anyone will check. See if you can get it expunged. Otherwise name change.