"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
steroid source
- Thread starter saber
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
I have one, id tell you but then id have to kill you.saber said:
Besides, steroids are illegal, something to keep in mind when you openly ask for some.
OR am I missing the joke here?
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
I have no idea how old you are, or how much experience you have in doing this kind of thing, but I will tell you right off hand, you better know what the hell you're doing.
Hell, you can even order online with no message boards, but be warned, that many of those places are seized and shut down. Happens to a handful a few months ago.
But this is the WRONG type of forum to be asking this crap on. And even when you do find a forum, being a NOOB wont help either. They look down on new people randomly coming on boards asking for that stuff.
SkillzthatKillz
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TheSplat
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Naysayers check this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0LEj8IPHGU
I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
If you are...then you already are setting yourself up for disaster. Good luck to you either way.
TheSplat
Master Don Juan
j-flex said:
wow. I would have figured that websites on how to attract women were for losers. Not calling anyone names, because I'm obviously a member of SS too, but this is ridiculous.
Does looking better and being stronger than you could naturally be make you a loser? If you fight a guy on steroids and lose, is he a loser? What about if you shatter sports records? Steroids give you an alpha male mentality bro...
Like aviator sunglasses, they're instant cool.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheSplat said:
Yes and No. the difference is that so suave is for losers who want to improve, therefore they are not really losers. because sooner or later we are all going to succeed.
looking better and being stronger doesnt make you a loser. the means of acheving it does. you see, a person who wants "to be stronger and look better" usings steroids have mental issues just like the bulimic or anorexic person. they all want to look better NOW without putting any effort and sacrifice ,to the point of damaging their bodies real bad due to their poor self steem, self-rotted image and lack of dicipline.
you shatter sport records with steroids true, but cheating. you can also win NFL championships when you put cameras on the other team and know their strategies.
steroids give you a alpha mentality no doubt, but at what cost?, you stop taking them and you no longer have that mentality (just like alcohol), and now your body shrinks again and lose all the muscle you had no matter if you still lift, and now you have a fked up body.
natural lifters have to work 10X harder that steroid using to achieve half. but it is more satisfying.
locs glasses are better
. http://www.surfeyes.com/blog/uploads/OG-Loc-Sunglasse.jpgI don't like going to the gym hoping to gains 10lbs of muscle a year.
I might put on 20lbs in two months on a very safe cycle.
If I planed on getting huge I would hold off, but honestly I just wanna gain about 20lbs.
I have **** to do. I always take the shortest method and move on to something better. Why not? Some guys think studying pu is cheating.
dont get pissed cause you are afraid to use them yourself
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
leftForDeadPhoenix
Don Juan
He's right fellas. I once tried to fight a dude on roids and kicked him in the nuts, but it didn't work, because he didn't have any big enough to feel. So he beat me up and and tried to rape me. Fortunately he couldn't get it up and I escaped. At the trial he pleaded insane and the jury believed him, because there was more than enough proof of that and he finally got off easy.:crackup:TheSplat said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.