You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I have one, id tell you but then id have to kill you.saber said:I am looking for a source or the best way of getting one.
pm me.
LOL the 'true lifters' as you put it happen to be on the roids actually.I-tallionStallion said:How about you eat and work hard. Cause those steriods are going to nothing but make your $hit smaller and make you like an idiot to true lifters.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
j-flex said:steroids are for losers.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheSplat said:wow. I would have figured that websites on how to attract women were for losers. Not calling anyone names, because I'm obviously a member of SS too, but this is ridiculous.
Does looking better and being stronger than you could naturally be make you a loser? If you fight a guy on steroids and lose, is he a loser? What about if you shatter sports records? Steroids give you an alpha male mentality bro...
Like aviator sunglasses, they're instant cool.
He's right fellas. I once tried to fight a dude on roids and kicked him in the nuts, but it didn't work, because he didn't have any big enough to feel. So he beat me up and and tried to rape me. Fortunately he couldn't get it up and I escaped. At the trial he pleaded insane and the jury believed him, because there was more than enough proof of that and he finally got off easy.:crackup:TheSplat said:wow. I would have figured that websites on how to attract women were for losers. Not calling anyone names, because I'm obviously a member of SS too, but this is ridiculous.
Does looking better and being stronger than you could naturally be make you a loser? If you fight a guy on steroids and lose, is he a loser? What about if you shatter sports records? Steroids give you an alpha male mentality bro...
Like aviator sunglasses, they're instant cool.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.