"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Awhile ago i read about a very interesting technique about stepping forwaerd two steps then stepping back one, once you have a girl interested in you. Like you advance to kissing a girl then u hold back a little so she wants u more. I tried to search for info about this technique because i forgot some of the details so if anyone has a link or knows what im talking about please help me out with the details... thanks alot for any help
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The push-pull technique by david deangelo.

Also know as the give/take technique.

Can't remember any other names, if there are any.
 
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This is increasing & amplfying attraction. Your always making progress, but everytime you make progress you stop and step back. As soon as you can tell that she likes whatever you are doing, stop!, and lean back, make her want more of it. It creates a void and space that wants more. The best type is when getting physical with her. Hope that helps.
 
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yes! thanks alot this is the exact technique im talking about
 
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does anyone else have any info or have a link to this article?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is the dumbest thing David DeAngelo ever came up with, but bless the man for thinking so hard to come up with metaphors like this.

SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.

Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.

It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.

It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.

So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.

The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)
 
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