Awhile ago i read about a very interesting technique about stepping forwaerd two steps then stepping back one, once you have a girl interested in you. Like you advance to kissing a girl then u hold back a little so she wants u more. I tried to search for info about this technique because i forgot some of the details so if anyone has a link or knows what im talking about please help me out with the details... thanks alot for any help
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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This is increasing & amplfying attraction. Your always making progress, but everytime you make progress you stop and step back. As soon as you can tell that she likes whatever you are doing, stop!, and lean back, make her want more of it. It creates a void and space that wants more. The best type is when getting physical with her. Hope that helps.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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This is the dumbest thing David DeAngelo ever came up with, but bless the man for thinking so hard to come up with metaphors like this.
SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.
Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.
It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.
It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.
So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.
The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)
SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.
Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.
It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.
It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.
So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.
The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)