"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awhile ago i read about a very interesting technique about stepping forwaerd two steps then stepping back one, once you have a girl interested in you. Like you advance to kissing a girl then u hold back a little so she wants u more. I tried to search for info about this technique because i forgot some of the details so if anyone has a link or knows what im talking about please help me out with the details... thanks alot for any help
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The push-pull technique by david deangelo.

Also know as the give/take technique.

Can't remember any other names, if there are any.
 
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This is increasing & amplfying attraction. Your always making progress, but everytime you make progress you stop and step back. As soon as you can tell that she likes whatever you are doing, stop!, and lean back, make her want more of it. It creates a void and space that wants more. The best type is when getting physical with her. Hope that helps.
 
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yes! thanks alot this is the exact technique im talking about
 
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does anyone else have any info or have a link to this article?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is the dumbest thing David DeAngelo ever came up with, but bless the man for thinking so hard to come up with metaphors like this.

SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.

Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.

It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.

It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.

So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.

The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)
 
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