“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Awhile ago i read about a very interesting technique about stepping forwaerd two steps then stepping back one, once you have a girl interested in you. Like you advance to kissing a girl then u hold back a little so she wants u more. I tried to search for info about this technique because i forgot some of the details so if anyone has a link or knows what im talking about please help me out with the details... thanks alot for any help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The push-pull technique by david deangelo.

Also know as the give/take technique.

Can't remember any other names, if there are any.
 
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This is increasing & amplfying attraction. Your always making progress, but everytime you make progress you stop and step back. As soon as you can tell that she likes whatever you are doing, stop!, and lean back, make her want more of it. It creates a void and space that wants more. The best type is when getting physical with her. Hope that helps.
 
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yes! thanks alot this is the exact technique im talking about
 
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does anyone else have any info or have a link to this article?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is the dumbest thing David DeAngelo ever came up with, but bless the man for thinking so hard to come up with metaphors like this.

SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.

Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.

It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.

It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.

So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.

The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)
 
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