"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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As I get back into the dating game (mainly in a few weeks when I hit it hard), I have to address one of my fears.

I have a fear of STD's like anyone else. And one thing I was thining about is how I actually don't necessarily like a girl giving me a BJ.

Partly because it takes me a while to get off, but the other part is I have a fear of contracting herpes this way.

Which leads to my ignorance, and I haven't researched it yet.

I know obviously a girl with herpes cold sores on her mouth can easily give herpes to you when she does oral on you. Is this the predominant way in which it's transferred to people?

Sorry to put fear into people but I had a scare once, it wasn't herpes but it was after oral from a girl. If I was more comfortable I'd tell more about it.

Maybe I should later (in fact I may have an old post on it). In which case I already blurted it out.

Just wondering.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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damn hey wat happens if i got a cold sore but i dont got herpes and i give oral and receive oral to her?
 
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yes you can get herpes from oral sex.

Research - there are other posts here.
 
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I know there is the oral herpes and that can be used to give genital herpes.

I already knew this, I was just wondering if this was mentioned as the main route of transmission of the virus? Or if one is more likely to get it from vaginal sex.

Honestly my answer would be that is most likely transmitted by whatever area the sore contacts your body. So both are probable, but didn't know if any researcher had determined which was more likely.

The implication? I am actually worried about getting a ******* from some girl that I just meet as well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pm relik he got herpies this way from some fattie he and his friends double teamed.
 
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