"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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STD question

Ricky

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As I get back into the dating game (mainly in a few weeks when I hit it hard), I have to address one of my fears.

I have a fear of STD's like anyone else. And one thing I was thining about is how I actually don't necessarily like a girl giving me a BJ.

Partly because it takes me a while to get off, but the other part is I have a fear of contracting herpes this way.

Which leads to my ignorance, and I haven't researched it yet.

I know obviously a girl with herpes cold sores on her mouth can easily give herpes to you when she does oral on you. Is this the predominant way in which it's transferred to people?

Sorry to put fear into people but I had a scare once, it wasn't herpes but it was after oral from a girl. If I was more comfortable I'd tell more about it.

Maybe I should later (in fact I may have an old post on it). In which case I already blurted it out.

Just wondering.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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damn hey wat happens if i got a cold sore but i dont got herpes and i give oral and receive oral to her?
 

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yes you can get herpes from oral sex.

Research - there are other posts here.
 

Ricky

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I know there is the oral herpes and that can be used to give genital herpes.

I already knew this, I was just wondering if this was mentioned as the main route of transmission of the virus? Or if one is more likely to get it from vaginal sex.

Honestly my answer would be that is most likely transmitted by whatever area the sore contacts your body. So both are probable, but didn't know if any researcher had determined which was more likely.

The implication? I am actually worried about getting a ******* from some girl that I just meet as well.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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tj

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pm relik he got herpies this way from some fattie he and his friends double teamed.
 
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