“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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STD question

Ricky

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As I get back into the dating game (mainly in a few weeks when I hit it hard), I have to address one of my fears.

I have a fear of STD's like anyone else. And one thing I was thining about is how I actually don't necessarily like a girl giving me a BJ.

Partly because it takes me a while to get off, but the other part is I have a fear of contracting herpes this way.

Which leads to my ignorance, and I haven't researched it yet.

I know obviously a girl with herpes cold sores on her mouth can easily give herpes to you when she does oral on you. Is this the predominant way in which it's transferred to people?

Sorry to put fear into people but I had a scare once, it wasn't herpes but it was after oral from a girl. If I was more comfortable I'd tell more about it.

Maybe I should later (in fact I may have an old post on it). In which case I already blurted it out.

Just wondering.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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damn hey wat happens if i got a cold sore but i dont got herpes and i give oral and receive oral to her?
 

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yes you can get herpes from oral sex.

Research - there are other posts here.
 

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I know there is the oral herpes and that can be used to give genital herpes.

I already knew this, I was just wondering if this was mentioned as the main route of transmission of the virus? Or if one is more likely to get it from vaginal sex.

Honestly my answer would be that is most likely transmitted by whatever area the sore contacts your body. So both are probable, but didn't know if any researcher had determined which was more likely.

The implication? I am actually worried about getting a ******* from some girl that I just meet as well.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pm relik he got herpies this way from some fattie he and his friends double teamed.
 
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