"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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******** Statements

DaneB

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Here's two statements I have heard lately from a girl friend of mine. She has told me "I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me" when I was told her that I liked her. Those are some weird statements and I was just wondering if you guys could clarify.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Shes not sexually intrested in you. She doesn't want to say I DONT LIKE YOU maybe shes nice or maybe she's close to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Ninja out
 

00Kevin

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Mistake #1

You told her that you liked her. Try being a man of action and not words. If you like a girl then go after her with actions. Take her out and show her a good time. Make a move on her. If she doesn't respond then move on.


Mistake #2

You are worried about it. Get more girls to date and build up your list. You have to understand and get it through to your head that 99% of all woman are just not for you. You have to go about your quest for pu-ssy in a logical order.
 

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Re: Re: ******** Statements

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Respond with, "yeah, you're absolutely right."

Then never talk to her again.
Hahahaha thats good.

Ninja out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deep Dish

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"I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me"
In other words, “It’s not you, it’s me.”

“It’s not you, it’s me” means “It’s not me, it’s you.”
Respond with, “yeah, you’re absolutely right.”
Nice! :D
 

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its not you its me = its you its you its really really you
 

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when a girl ask me, if she looks cute with her clothes on or off.. is that a sign she wants to get it on like lions on the discovery channel?
 

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Assuming you've never seen her naked, yes. She was looking for a reason to take her clothes off. Jesus, what do you people expect? For her to kick you to the ground and mount you?
 
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