"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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******** Statements

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Here's two statements I have heard lately from a girl friend of mine. She has told me "I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me" when I was told her that I liked her. Those are some weird statements and I was just wondering if you guys could clarify.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shes not sexually intrested in you. She doesn't want to say I DONT LIKE YOU maybe shes nice or maybe she's close to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Ninja out
 

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Mistake #1

You told her that you liked her. Try being a man of action and not words. If you like a girl then go after her with actions. Take her out and show her a good time. Make a move on her. If she doesn't respond then move on.


Mistake #2

You are worried about it. Get more girls to date and build up your list. You have to understand and get it through to your head that 99% of all woman are just not for you. You have to go about your quest for pu-ssy in a logical order.
 

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Re: Re: ******** Statements

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Respond with, "yeah, you're absolutely right."

Then never talk to her again.
Hahahaha thats good.

Ninja out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Deep Dish

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"I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me"
In other words, “It’s not you, it’s me.”

“It’s not you, it’s me” means “It’s not me, it’s you.”
Respond with, “yeah, you’re absolutely right.”
Nice! :D
 

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its not you its me = its you its you its really really you
 

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when a girl ask me, if she looks cute with her clothes on or off.. is that a sign she wants to get it on like lions on the discovery channel?
 

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Assuming you've never seen her naked, yes. She was looking for a reason to take her clothes off. Jesus, what do you people expect? For her to kick you to the ground and mount you?
 
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