"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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******** Statements

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Here's two statements I have heard lately from a girl friend of mine. She has told me "I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me" when I was told her that I liked her. Those are some weird statements and I was just wondering if you guys could clarify.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shes not sexually intrested in you. She doesn't want to say I DONT LIKE YOU maybe shes nice or maybe she's close to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

Ninja out
 

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Mistake #1

You told her that you liked her. Try being a man of action and not words. If you like a girl then go after her with actions. Take her out and show her a good time. Make a move on her. If she doesn't respond then move on.


Mistake #2

You are worried about it. Get more girls to date and build up your list. You have to understand and get it through to your head that 99% of all woman are just not for you. You have to go about your quest for pu-ssy in a logical order.
 

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Re: Re: ******** Statements

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Respond with, "yeah, you're absolutely right."

Then never talk to her again.
Hahahaha thats good.

Ninja out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deep Dish

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"I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me"
In other words, “It’s not you, it’s me.”

“It’s not you, it’s me” means “It’s not me, it’s you.”
Respond with, “yeah, you’re absolutely right.”
Nice! :D
 

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its not you its me = its you its you its really really you
 

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when a girl ask me, if she looks cute with her clothes on or off.. is that a sign she wants to get it on like lions on the discovery channel?
 

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Assuming you've never seen her naked, yes. She was looking for a reason to take her clothes off. Jesus, what do you people expect? For her to kick you to the ground and mount you?
 
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