Here's two statements I have heard lately from a girl friend of mine. She has told me "I'm not worthy of you as a friend" and she has also said that "You can do better than me" when I was told her that I liked her. Those are some weird statements and I was just wondering if you guys could clarify.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
******** Statements
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Shes not sexually intrested in you. She doesn't want to say I DONT LIKE YOU maybe shes nice or maybe she's close to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Ninja out
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Mistake #1
You told her that you liked her. Try being a man of action and not words. If you like a girl then go after her with actions. Take her out and show her a good time. Make a move on her. If she doesn't respond then move on.
Mistake #2
You are worried about it. Get more girls to date and build up your list. You have to understand and get it through to your head that 99% of all woman are just not for you. You have to go about your quest for pu-ssy in a logical order.
You told her that you liked her. Try being a man of action and not words. If you like a girl then go after her with actions. Take her out and show her a good time. Make a move on her. If she doesn't respond then move on.
Mistake #2
You are worried about it. Get more girls to date and build up your list. You have to understand and get it through to your head that 99% of all woman are just not for you. You have to go about your quest for pu-ssy in a logical order.
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Respond with, "yeah, you're absolutely right."
Then never talk to her again.
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Re: Re: ******** Statements
Ninja out.
Hahahaha thats good.
Ninja out.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
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its not you its me = its you its you its really really you