"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Starting a trend of no second dates...unusual for me...advice

skinnyguy

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It seems that you're primarily looking for girls who you just want to fvck, while these girls DO want an ltr and not some guy who wants to smash.

These women aren't dumb. they can tell a guy who is serious and who isn't. They might have fun messing around with you, but if they want something more than that they are willing to cut it off and wait for the right guy. Women have tons of options, they don't have to settle

The fact that you're already banging 2 other women tells me that you want to lay these chicks as quickly as possible. I am interested in knowing the age of these women. Are they 30 and looking for a husband?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It seems that you're primarily looking for girls who you just want to fvck, while these girls DO want an ltr and not some guy who wants to smash.

These women aren't dumb. they can tell a guy who is serious and who isn't. They might have fun messing around with you, but if they want something more than that they are willing to cut it off and wait for the right guy. Women have tons of options, they don't have to settle

The fact that you're already banging 2 other women tells me that you want to lay these chicks as quickly as possible. I am interested in knowing the age of these women. Are they 30 and looking for a husband?
No not really. The bottom line is that the sooner you have sex with a woman the sooner the balance of power shifts towards you and allows you to decide what kind of relationship you want.

It is a much bigger investment for a woman emotionally to have sex than it is for a guy and that leads to feelings that she will never have unless you have had sex with her. Combine that with my confidence that it will be the best sex she has ever had and that leads to her being hooked pretty quickly.

At the end of the day I want to fvck multiple women while deciding which, if any, are worthy of an LTR with me. Have a 2nd date scheduled with a hottie I met last Thursday for drinks this week with high interest that may turn into another plate...going to try and transition us being out into her coming back to my place. First time I am trying it in a while but I need to practice it because it needs to be part of my repetoire.

The women are between 35 and 45 but I prefer late 30s and up. I don't need women still wanting to have kids that definitely is not in the cards.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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