"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Starting a trend of no second dates...unusual for me...advice

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It seems that you're primarily looking for girls who you just want to fvck, while these girls DO want an ltr and not some guy who wants to smash.

These women aren't dumb. they can tell a guy who is serious and who isn't. They might have fun messing around with you, but if they want something more than that they are willing to cut it off and wait for the right guy. Women have tons of options, they don't have to settle

The fact that you're already banging 2 other women tells me that you want to lay these chicks as quickly as possible. I am interested in knowing the age of these women. Are they 30 and looking for a husband?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skinnyguy said:
It seems that you're primarily looking for girls who you just want to fvck, while these girls DO want an ltr and not some guy who wants to smash.

These women aren't dumb. they can tell a guy who is serious and who isn't. They might have fun messing around with you, but if they want something more than that they are willing to cut it off and wait for the right guy. Women have tons of options, they don't have to settle

The fact that you're already banging 2 other women tells me that you want to lay these chicks as quickly as possible. I am interested in knowing the age of these women. Are they 30 and looking for a husband?
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No not really. The bottom line is that the sooner you have sex with a woman the sooner the balance of power shifts towards you and allows you to decide what kind of relationship you want.

It is a much bigger investment for a woman emotionally to have sex than it is for a guy and that leads to feelings that she will never have unless you have had sex with her. Combine that with my confidence that it will be the best sex she has ever had and that leads to her being hooked pretty quickly.

At the end of the day I want to fvck multiple women while deciding which, if any, are worthy of an LTR with me. Have a 2nd date scheduled with a hottie I met last Thursday for drinks this week with high interest that may turn into another plate...going to try and transition us being out into her coming back to my place. First time I am trying it in a while but I need to practice it because it needs to be part of my repetoire.

The women are between 35 and 45 but I prefer late 30s and up. I don't need women still wanting to have kids that definitely is not in the cards.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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