DonDiscovery
Don Juan
I've read a lot recently about the benefits of doing this challenge so decided to give it a go...anyone have any advice on how to make the cold turkey aspect easier?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Starting a 30-day No Porn/MB challenge...tips?
- Thread starter DonDiscovery
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Swampcamel
Don Juan
Chase girls lots. You'll probably get laid before your 30 days are up. Smooth sailing from there.
DonDiscovery
Don Juan
sounds like solid advice, thanks
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Just control yourself.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
don't touch it not even when you shower
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
try not to edge.. it just ends badly.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
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Yea I'm actually about 1 week into such a thing (just made that other thread, "fapping sucks". So I can probably give some pointers.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.