DonDiscovery
Don Juan
I've read a lot recently about the benefits of doing this challenge so decided to give it a go...anyone have any advice on how to make the cold turkey aspect easier?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Starting a 30-day No Porn/MB challenge...tips?
- Thread starter DonDiscovery
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Swampcamel
Don Juan
Chase girls lots. You'll probably get laid before your 30 days are up. Smooth sailing from there.
DonDiscovery
Don Juan
sounds like solid advice, thanks
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Just control yourself.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
don't touch it not even when you shower
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
try not to edge.. it just ends badly.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
gravityeyelids
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Yea I'm actually about 1 week into such a thing (just made that other thread, "fapping sucks". So I can probably give some pointers.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.