DonDiscovery
Don Juan
I've read a lot recently about the benefits of doing this challenge so decided to give it a go...anyone have any advice on how to make the cold turkey aspect easier?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Starting a 30-day No Porn/MB challenge...tips?
- Thread starter DonDiscovery
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Swampcamel
Don Juan
Chase girls lots. You'll probably get laid before your 30 days are up. Smooth sailing from there.
DonDiscovery
Don Juan
sounds like solid advice, thanks
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Just control yourself.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
don't touch it not even when you shower
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
try not to edge.. it just ends badly.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
gravityeyelids
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Yea I'm actually about 1 week into such a thing (just made that other thread, "fapping sucks". So I can probably give some pointers.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.