DonDiscovery
Don Juan
I've read a lot recently about the benefits of doing this challenge so decided to give it a go...anyone have any advice on how to make the cold turkey aspect easier?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Starting a 30-day No Porn/MB challenge...tips?
- Thread starter DonDiscovery
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Swampcamel
Don Juan
Chase girls lots. You'll probably get laid before your 30 days are up. Smooth sailing from there.
DonDiscovery
Don Juan
sounds like solid advice, thanks
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Just control yourself.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
don't touch it not even when you shower
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
try not to edge.. it just ends badly.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
i'm on the same challenge man. on day 5 now. good lucky to you.
gravityeyelids
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Yea I'm actually about 1 week into such a thing (just made that other thread, "fapping sucks". So I can probably give some pointers.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.
First off, you NEED to get an auto porn blocker on your computer. I use k9 web protection. You also NEED for a roommate or whoever to create a pass word you dont know. Make sure you set it to both "Pornography" as well as the "nudity" channels. we're quite crafty when we're horny.
As the other guy said, DON'T edge at all. You may think you can prevent yourself, but you can't. trust me.
Stay Busy.
Obviously girls are fair game, so channel your sexual drive into that. It's great, i find myself much more aggressive, direct, and confident. I keep looking other guys dead on in the eyes while they talk to me and keep my head high and shoulders back while walking.