"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Startin to break through

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Well if you read my last post about approaching a cute quiet* girl in my class.

I have some progress.

So i was in class and the teacher announces that we were going to have a group project. She numbered us all of. And it turns out that , that hottie was in my group. It was just me, her, and some other dude( who was pretty cool)

I remeber reading something about like being mysterious and acting not interested in the person who you really are.

So i just ignored the girl at first and talked to the dude. and this is what happened

Me: Hey you know our project in that other class
Dude: yeah
Me: for dressig up im just going to wear my purple vest from the movie theatre i work at
Dude: awesome!

Then the girl interupts

Hottie: you work at a movie theatre?
Me: yeah
Hottie: Where
Me:--------
Hottie: Sweet, do you get into movies free?
Me: yeah, it's nice
Hottie: I bet it's awesome.


Then we just talked like the rest of the class. And like i made her laugh the whole time. But i acted all calm about it.

What do you guys think, Good?

What's next for me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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panosha said:
and you didnt # close her


Nah we were doing an assignment. Besides i didn't want to show too much interest yet.


Was i suppose to?
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Hell yeah you were supposed to!
Show everyone in the class you get the #s ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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awesome, if you mess up though you'll be known as not getting the #s :p
 
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