"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well if you read my last post about approaching a cute quiet* girl in my class.

I have some progress.

So i was in class and the teacher announces that we were going to have a group project. She numbered us all of. And it turns out that , that hottie was in my group. It was just me, her, and some other dude( who was pretty cool)

I remeber reading something about like being mysterious and acting not interested in the person who you really are.

So i just ignored the girl at first and talked to the dude. and this is what happened

Me: Hey you know our project in that other class
Dude: yeah
Me: for dressig up im just going to wear my purple vest from the movie theatre i work at
Dude: awesome!

Then the girl interupts

Hottie: you work at a movie theatre?
Me: yeah
Hottie: Where
Me:--------
Hottie: Sweet, do you get into movies free?
Me: yeah, it's nice
Hottie: I bet it's awesome.


Then we just talked like the rest of the class. And like i made her laugh the whole time. But i acted all calm about it.

What do you guys think, Good?

What's next for me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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panosha said:
and you didnt # close her
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Nah we were doing an assignment. Besides i didn't want to show too much interest yet.


Was i suppose to?
 
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Hell yeah you were supposed to!
Show everyone in the class you get the #s ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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awesome, if you mess up though you'll be known as not getting the #s :p
 
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