"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well if you read my last post about approaching a cute quiet* girl in my class.

I have some progress.

So i was in class and the teacher announces that we were going to have a group project. She numbered us all of. And it turns out that , that hottie was in my group. It was just me, her, and some other dude( who was pretty cool)

I remeber reading something about like being mysterious and acting not interested in the person who you really are.

So i just ignored the girl at first and talked to the dude. and this is what happened

Me: Hey you know our project in that other class
Dude: yeah
Me: for dressig up im just going to wear my purple vest from the movie theatre i work at
Dude: awesome!

Then the girl interupts

Hottie: you work at a movie theatre?
Me: yeah
Hottie: Where
Me:--------
Hottie: Sweet, do you get into movies free?
Me: yeah, it's nice
Hottie: I bet it's awesome.


Then we just talked like the rest of the class. And like i made her laugh the whole time. But i acted all calm about it.

What do you guys think, Good?

What's next for me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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panosha said:
and you didnt # close her
Click to expand...


Nah we were doing an assignment. Besides i didn't want to show too much interest yet.


Was i suppose to?
 
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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Hell yeah you were supposed to!
Show everyone in the class you get the #s ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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awesome, if you mess up though you'll be known as not getting the #s :p
 
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