"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Startin to break through

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Well if you read my last post about approaching a cute quiet* girl in my class.

I have some progress.

So i was in class and the teacher announces that we were going to have a group project. She numbered us all of. And it turns out that , that hottie was in my group. It was just me, her, and some other dude( who was pretty cool)

I remeber reading something about like being mysterious and acting not interested in the person who you really are.

So i just ignored the girl at first and talked to the dude. and this is what happened

Me: Hey you know our project in that other class
Dude: yeah
Me: for dressig up im just going to wear my purple vest from the movie theatre i work at
Dude: awesome!

Then the girl interupts

Hottie: you work at a movie theatre?
Me: yeah
Hottie: Where
Me:--------
Hottie: Sweet, do you get into movies free?
Me: yeah, it's nice
Hottie: I bet it's awesome.


Then we just talked like the rest of the class. And like i made her laugh the whole time. But i acted all calm about it.

What do you guys think, Good?

What's next for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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panosha said:
and you didnt # close her


Nah we were doing an assignment. Besides i didn't want to show too much interest yet.


Was i suppose to?
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Hell yeah you were supposed to!
Show everyone in the class you get the #s ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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awesome, if you mess up though you'll be known as not getting the #s :p
 
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