You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
depends on the rest of the workout but if volume is low enough it could work. although I'd have to ask WHY you wanted to pair them together in the first place.. in general it's not recommended at all (powerlifting aside).yake said:Is it ok to do squats and deadlifts together in workout along with other exercises?
Or will this lead to overtraining?
you can't pushing maximal weights that way. the volume would have to be really low for squats and deads in the same workout and more along the lines of powerlifting (working up to a triple, double or even single) on both the squat and the deadlift.. for bodybuilding (higher reps) I would never do them on the same day. going up to your 1RM is one thing, doing multiple sets at your 5RM is quite another.Ice Cold said:Sure you can... imo
If you usually do 6 sets of squats, you can do 3 sets of squats and 3 sets of deadlifts.
The thing I don't like about it is that you have to shift all the weights back and forth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
that works. like squats and rack pulls or deadlifts and good mornings.bmxcetera said:I don't do them together. It's one or the other. When I did deadlifts before, I'd throw in dumbbell lunges instead of squats, try to come up w/something supplemental exercise like that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Only when poundages are relatively low.md3sign said:And this is a program that has (and continues to) work for thousands of lifters, very effectively.
And unless everyone here is 5'8" 230lbs or whatever you are (still want pics), they're gonna be sticking with relatively low poundages for quite some time.Warboss Alex said:Only when poundages are relatively low.
I'm 6' if you don't mind. And I will not post pictures for reasons of my own however if you or any other guy on here is ever in my area (currently UK but will be moving to the US soon if all goes to plain), you're more than welcome to come work out with me or even just grab a McD's if you want to see what I look like.md3sign said:5'8"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
not sure, somewhere southern. Kentucky, Carolinas, Tennessee, somewhere like that.spesmilitis said:where in the us?
awwww. cali is where its at.Warboss Alex said:not sure, somewhere southern. Kentucky, Carolinas, Tennessee, somewhere like that.![]()
Yeah, from looking at wba's lifts, even at his size, it would be very hard for the body to endure both exersices in the same period. I'm still either novice or intermediate for those lifts, so doing both per workout isn't a big deal to me.Warboss Alex said:Only when poundages are relatively low.
So long 5x5 ...Espi said:Makes no sense deadlifting and squatting in one workout...if you're able to do so, you need to increase the weight...I've been squatting two years, and it still takes me 3-4 days to fully recover...squats, IMO, are meant to be brutal...if they're not, increase the weight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.