I guess this applies to in school but mostly outside of school. Do you just get at the one girl you want? ("I wanna talk to you" seems a little too sudden) Or do you talk to both then somehow give your number to only one? (how do you manage that?)
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
splitting up groups?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Well idk what other do but I get the entire group involved and make sure everybody is interseted, then when I end it I go for all numbers, if there are any I dont rly want I just pretend to enter them. Last night I gamed a 6 set with 3 guys, I got 2 numbers and was friends with the guys still, b/c I got them involved too, so i'd say go for everybodys number and be selective on which ones you keep.
or specifically talk to the ones you DONT want---go with me on this--- then as you begin to see the convo winding down look over at the one you want (that you've almost been rejecting) and say something along the lines of "hey i didnt really get to talk to you much..." if you gotta go, then get the digits. if not (preferably not) then escort her to a more private place of the party and continue some one on one game
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Do a search Dot. This question has been answered many times before.
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