I guess this applies to in school but mostly outside of school. Do you just get at the one girl you want? ("I wanna talk to you" seems a little too sudden) Or do you talk to both then somehow give your number to only one? (how do you manage that?)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
splitting up groups?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
navyseal2101
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Well idk what other do but I get the entire group involved and make sure everybody is interseted, then when I end it I go for all numbers, if there are any I dont rly want I just pretend to enter them. Last night I gamed a 6 set with 3 guys, I got 2 numbers and was friends with the guys still, b/c I got them involved too, so i'd say go for everybodys number and be selective on which ones you keep.
or specifically talk to the ones you DONT want---go with me on this--- then as you begin to see the convo winding down look over at the one you want (that you've almost been rejecting) and say something along the lines of "hey i didnt really get to talk to you much..." if you gotta go, then get the digits. if not (preferably not) then escort her to a more private place of the party and continue some one on one game
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheVirtualMind
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Do a search Dot. This question has been answered many times before.
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