I guess this applies to in school but mostly outside of school. Do you just get at the one girl you want? ("I wanna talk to you" seems a little too sudden) Or do you talk to both then somehow give your number to only one? (how do you manage that?)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
splitting up groups?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
navyseal2101
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Well idk what other do but I get the entire group involved and make sure everybody is interseted, then when I end it I go for all numbers, if there are any I dont rly want I just pretend to enter them. Last night I gamed a 6 set with 3 guys, I got 2 numbers and was friends with the guys still, b/c I got them involved too, so i'd say go for everybodys number and be selective on which ones you keep.
or specifically talk to the ones you DONT want---go with me on this--- then as you begin to see the convo winding down look over at the one you want (that you've almost been rejecting) and say something along the lines of "hey i didnt really get to talk to you much..." if you gotta go, then get the digits. if not (preferably not) then escort her to a more private place of the party and continue some one on one game
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheVirtualMind
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Do a search Dot. This question has been answered many times before.
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