I guess this applies to in school but mostly outside of school. Do you just get at the one girl you want? ("I wanna talk to you" seems a little too sudden) Or do you talk to both then somehow give your number to only one? (how do you manage that?)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
splitting up groups?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
navyseal2101
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Well idk what other do but I get the entire group involved and make sure everybody is interseted, then when I end it I go for all numbers, if there are any I dont rly want I just pretend to enter them. Last night I gamed a 6 set with 3 guys, I got 2 numbers and was friends with the guys still, b/c I got them involved too, so i'd say go for everybodys number and be selective on which ones you keep.
or specifically talk to the ones you DONT want---go with me on this--- then as you begin to see the convo winding down look over at the one you want (that you've almost been rejecting) and say something along the lines of "hey i didnt really get to talk to you much..." if you gotta go, then get the digits. if not (preferably not) then escort her to a more private place of the party and continue some one on one game
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Do a search Dot. This question has been answered many times before.
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