"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Spitting or Swallowing

To Spit or Swallow

  • I want that b*tch to swallow my ***!

    Votes: 11 57.9%
  • I don't care if she spits it out

    Votes: 1 5.3%
  • This isn't a big deal to me either way... I got a blow job! :D

    Votes: 7 36.8%

  • Total voters
    19

ebracer05

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When a girl gives you head, do you want her to swallow or do you not care?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PDubb75

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If she's not gonna swallow, she better spit it on herself and play around with it...
 

Zerro

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If she ain't gonna swallow then I'd rather just end before I come so I can **** her already. Spitting feels like an insult and the chicks who do so are giving you head out of some grudging sense of duty rather than actually enjoying it. The ones who do swallow tend to give you head because they enjoy pleasuring you and get off on that themselves.

I don't mind alternatives like pulling away and having me come on her tits or something, it's the spitting itself that just ruins the blow job somewhat.
 

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I had one attempt to swallow once but then she ended up running to the bathroom and throwing up, so I let her spit it out after that, was kinda cute though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PDubb75

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ebracer05 said:
Have you actually had this happen?
I've only had one girl not swallow, and she spit it onto her t!ts and rubbed it in like it was freakin' lotion. She may have swallowed like half of it, though.. so maybe that still counts as swallowing? I don't know.. either way, it was hot as hell.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Girl better swallow and keep suckin for a good 10 seconds. Makes a playa cringe everytime.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Girl better swallow and keep suckin for a good 10 seconds. Makes a playa cringe everytime.
I think all of my ex's were happy to Guzzle it down.

Certain foods affect the taste, so I'm told....almonds, honey, natural Yougurt etc....as opposed to Sugar Puffs
 

Who Dares Win

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Well lets say that if she keeps sucking for the following 10seconds of which PrettyBoyAj spoke, I can consider my basic needs met but if she swallows of course is much better.

Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Well lets say that if she keeps sucking for the following 10seconds of which PrettyBoyAj spoke, I can consider my basic needs met but if she swallows of course is much better.

Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
Sooooooooo true
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Greasy Pig

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Honestly, blowing in a chick's mouth is all I care about. She can gargle it and blow bubbles with it for all I care.
I just get off on actually spraying man oil in her mouth.
Although I had a young chick spit it out on my stomach once and that was fvcked.
 

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I have a question - regardless of what your individual preferences are, im curious how you MAKE IT CLEAR to her that she is expected to take it in her mouth? do you just automatically hold it and move over to her face or do you let her know?

i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls swallow/spit, some have moved their mouths away and just taken it on the face, while some FLAT OUT said "no, not on the face"
 
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