ebracer05
Senior Don Juan
When a girl gives you head, do you want her to swallow or do you not care?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Spitting or Swallowing
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ebracer05
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Have you actually had this happen?PDubb75 said:
If she ain't gonna swallow then I'd rather just end before I come so I can **** her already. Spitting feels like an insult and the chicks who do so are giving you head out of some grudging sense of duty rather than actually enjoying it. The ones who do swallow tend to give you head because they enjoy pleasuring you and get off on that themselves.
I don't mind alternatives like pulling away and having me come on her tits or something, it's the spitting itself that just ruins the blow job somewhat.
I don't mind alternatives like pulling away and having me come on her tits or something, it's the spitting itself that just ruins the blow job somewhat.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
I had one attempt to swallow once but then she ended up running to the bathroom and throwing up, so I let her spit it out after that, was kinda cute though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I've only had one girl not swallow, and she spit it onto her t!ts and rubbed it in like it was freakin' lotion. She may have swallowed like half of it, though.. so maybe that still counts as swallowing? I don't know.. either way, it was hot as hell.ebracer05 said:
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Girl better swallow and keep suckin for a good 10 seconds. Makes a playa cringe everytime.
Who Dares Win
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Well lets say that if she keeps sucking for the following 10seconds of which PrettyBoyAj spoke, I can consider my basic needs met but if she swallows of course is much better.
Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
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Sooooooooo trueWho Dares Win said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Honestly, blowing in a chick's mouth is all I care about. She can gargle it and blow bubbles with it for all I care.
I just get off on actually spraying man oil in her mouth.
Although I had a young chick spit it out on my stomach once and that was fvcked.
I just get off on actually spraying man oil in her mouth.
Although I had a young chick spit it out on my stomach once and that was fvcked.
I have a question - regardless of what your individual preferences are, im curious how you MAKE IT CLEAR to her that she is expected to take it in her mouth? do you just automatically hold it and move over to her face or do you let her know?
i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls swallow/spit, some have moved their mouths away and just taken it on the face, while some FLAT OUT said "no, not on the face"
i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls swallow/spit, some have moved their mouths away and just taken it on the face, while some FLAT OUT said "no, not on the face"