ebracer05
Senior Don Juan
When a girl gives you head, do you want her to swallow or do you not care?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spitting or Swallowing
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ebracer05
Senior Don Juan
Have you actually had this happen?PDubb75 said:
If she ain't gonna swallow then I'd rather just end before I come so I can **** her already. Spitting feels like an insult and the chicks who do so are giving you head out of some grudging sense of duty rather than actually enjoying it. The ones who do swallow tend to give you head because they enjoy pleasuring you and get off on that themselves.
I don't mind alternatives like pulling away and having me come on her tits or something, it's the spitting itself that just ruins the blow job somewhat.
I don't mind alternatives like pulling away and having me come on her tits or something, it's the spitting itself that just ruins the blow job somewhat.
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
I had one attempt to swallow once but then she ended up running to the bathroom and throwing up, so I let her spit it out after that, was kinda cute though.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I've only had one girl not swallow, and she spit it onto her t!ts and rubbed it in like it was freakin' lotion. She may have swallowed like half of it, though.. so maybe that still counts as swallowing? I don't know.. either way, it was hot as hell.ebracer05 said:
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Girl better swallow and keep suckin for a good 10 seconds. Makes a playa cringe everytime.
Who Dares Win
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Well lets say that if she keeps sucking for the following 10seconds of which PrettyBoyAj spoke, I can consider my basic needs met but if she swallows of course is much better.
Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
Girls who spit are a clear sign that they are doing as an obligation, no different than when we pretend to care about their bvllsh1t in order to get head.
They probably pretend to like giving head to make us listening their bvllsh1t.
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Sooooooooo trueWho Dares Win said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Honestly, blowing in a chick's mouth is all I care about. She can gargle it and blow bubbles with it for all I care.
I just get off on actually spraying man oil in her mouth.
Although I had a young chick spit it out on my stomach once and that was fvcked.
I just get off on actually spraying man oil in her mouth.
Although I had a young chick spit it out on my stomach once and that was fvcked.
I have a question - regardless of what your individual preferences are, im curious how you MAKE IT CLEAR to her that she is expected to take it in her mouth? do you just automatically hold it and move over to her face or do you let her know?
i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls swallow/spit, some have moved their mouths away and just taken it on the face, while some FLAT OUT said "no, not on the face"
i've had mixed reactions from women - some girls swallow/spit, some have moved their mouths away and just taken it on the face, while some FLAT OUT said "no, not on the face"